Thursday, September 15, 2016

The Way of LIfe


“Do NOT play with that!” a key phrase every kid hears from their parents growing up. Weather boy or girl there is always social expectations on how we should act, who we should be friends with, and what we should play with. Young girls are expected to play with baby dolls and my little pony figures and young boys are told to play with action figures like Spiderman and Batman.  Growing up as one of the few boys in my family I was always surrounded by my cousins, who were girls. We were raised to always be active and be outside. I believe this was to keep us close and not get mixed up with playing with toys that “were not” acceptable by society. Growing up people picked on my cousin for being too manly because they were girls that love to be outside and playing sports or hiking. As for me, I like most people got picked on because I was small. I got called things like “weak, sissy, baby, chicken, etc.” and in today’s society kids expect to get picked on and that is not okay. Bullying in this day in age is something that everyone is embracing, adapting to and that is far from okay. As a nation, created on the idea of freedom how can we stand by and let children be oppressed and bullied by other kids and even adults. As a kids there no worse feeling then that of not being accepted. As a society we have just conformed to these ideals. Men, women, and children cannot express themselves in today’s world because how we have structured our believes on masculinity and feminism.
 

Thursday, September 1, 2016

"No Easy Day"


No Easy Day by Mark Owen is my favorite book because it influenced my life inside and outside the military. Most people would say “the book is only about killing Osama Bin Laden.” when in fact it describes, in detail, the personal accounts of an ex-navy seals life and missions leading up to the death of the worlds most wanted man. The book not only describes the events that took place on the day Bin Laden was killed but also previous mission and encounters in Mark Owen’s career leading up to this mission. No Easy Day influenced my life because it showed that hard work and determination will always pay off. Within my military career it showed how there are factors that change the course of the mission. For example, in this book the mission was changed when one of the helicopters crashed on the wall of the compound causing a loud commotion, shortening the time to accomplish the mission and eliminating the element of surprise. Being in the military allowed me to relate to this book in different ways then someone who is not in the military, although it relates to me on a non-military level as well. This book describes one of the most infamous people in American history and people around America were affected by the actions of this infamous terrorist. No easy Day by Mark Owen is a great read for not only people who enjoy non-fiction but also people who enjoy military process and how certain objectives are reached within our military. I would definitely suggest this book for many years to come.